Stereotypes I simply CANNOT read any more

Readers have spoken. Here’s what it seems just about everyone is sick of reading.

-The parents of a villain being evil or dead

It would be interesting to have a villain who was raised without hardships and is just evil for the fun of it. Not everyone evil was once nice, yes a killer (quite literally) backstory makes for a riveting read. Albeit, overall a unique character is what will keep me reading the story. I’d like to clarify that many characters have interesting backgrounds WITH nice, perfectly sane parents that are still alive. It is definitely possible.

-Love triangles

I hear a lot of people grieve and gripe about these, so I’ve given them their fair slot on this list. I personally don’t mind a well written, realistic love triangle every now and then. Unfortunately, the number of times they are unrealistic and thrown into the story for the heck of it, is ever increasing. Whenever an author gets into the funk of writing a book they think their readers want to read vs what they want to write, quirky things like random unexplained love triangles always get put into the mix. It’s a shame this trope has earned itself such a dicey reputation.

-Gender Stereotypes

Valley girls, rich girls, nerds, geeks, jocks, etc. This is a list that could go on for miles. I go to school with human beings, so the people in these YA books I’m reading must be aliens. They are so far out and different compared to reality. Authors have a bottomless pit of characteristics to pick and choose, mix together, but they stop after one. A person is not only a jock. A person is not only their money or ability to do makeup. I know there are many books out there that have fallen prey to this, but I’m sure there are even more that haven’t.

-City girl meets country boy

I think this was a cute idea when it was first introduced, but the amount of books its now monopolized makes reading somewhat monotonous.

-Forbidden love

Oui with the poodles already! (if you can tell me what this is from let’s just say I’ll be highly impressed). This is only iconic when it’s found in classics such as Romeo and Juliet. Its become overwritten to the point of exhaustion. I’d like a new outlook on forbidden love, a story that’s unique and NOT told in a hundred different only slightly varying books (if you have suggestions, I’m in dire need).

-Dark broody men with no redeeming qualities other than being handsome

Been there, done that, like 1,000 times. It’s media like this that makes girls think it’s okay to date a douche as long as he’s sexy. WRONG. This even ties in with the gender stereotypes just a wee bit. Men do not have to be brooding, handsome, mysterious, etc. to be deemed desirable in another’s eyes.

-Skinny girls with unrealistic love lives

Talk about toxic media. I’d like to see all body types without any special spotlights going to a character just because of their body type. Being skinny doesn’t guarantee anyone a date (or a rom-com worthy romance).

-Emotionally distant heroines

Personally, I need to be able to step into the heroine’s shoes. They need to be relatable and riveting to keep me turning pages. Humans are not emotionless. They have feelings, thoughts, and the ability to form opinions. Therefore the characters in the books I’m reading (who are not robots) should too. (Except in Cinder but she’s only 36% cyborg hehe).

I tried to incorporate everyone’s answer that I received, but there were just so many! Here are a few that I completely agree with! Comment your opinions, I’d love to know!

New Years Resolutions

To start off the new year, I’ve decided to document some of the goals I have in relation to the blog, reading, writing, and photography. Having a clear, specific list of my goals will hopefully serve as motivation as 2019 goes on.

Since our blog is self-hosted, there is lots to learn. Specifically, in the department of aesthetics, I’d like to be able to navigate the theme and work with code in the back end of the site. I’d like for our blog to be customized outside of the norms of the theme, in an effort to match aesthetics with the style of our writing.

In regards to the timing in which we post, I’d like to keep a regular schedule. My hope is that we will post once a week, every weekend. Between both Livia and I, I’m sure this is going to be doable. We’ve already started formulating plans for an organization system that will ensure this goal is met, without any last minute BS posts.

Since I mentioned BS posts, allow me to elaborate. We want our content to be written to the best of our abilities, every single time. The integrity of our writing is something we will be shining a spotlight on this year. Not to say that we haven’t been up to date, but there have been a few instances where we ended up writing a post the day before and didn’t allow sufficient editing time.

For me, I’ve set a personal goal to just read. I’m trying not to set a specific number for myself for two reasons. First, I’ll never remember to log all the books I read anyways, 2018 taught me I’m a bit of a forgetful lass. Second, reading isn’t homework for me, but nstead a chosen activity I enjoy doing. The moment I attach numbers and due dates to how and when I read, it’ll start to stray from a beloved hobby to a dreaded chore. I don’t want this to happen. I want to read because I enjoy it, no ulterior motives needed. Even having said this, I do want to read more. In 2019 my goal is to cut down on useless Netflix bingeing and focus my time on something more worthy.

Speaking of spending my time on something more worthy, I’d like to put more of my time into my WIP. I WILL finish the first draft of my manuscript this year. It’s a dream, not to mention a passion of mine to write. I’m going to try to set mini, non-specific goals in hopes it helps me power through and finish the dang thing. I’ve learned from NaNoWriMo that setting word count goals brings more feelings of disappointment than happiness, at least in my case. Stay tuned to be updated as I try to find a system that works uniquely with me. Livia plans on finishing a first draft of a manuscript by July first, as mentioned in a previous post. She will most definitely let you know when her manuscript is finished as well.

I’ve been borrowing my father’s camera to take photos for the blog and bookstgram, seeing as I don’t have my own. He doesn’t use it much, so I’ve pretty much adopted it as my own. I’ve been functioning on an archaically basic knowledge of how to use the pesky thing for the past year. 2019 is the year to change that. I will either take a photography class or scour the internet to learn all the capabilities of my Nikon D2300. Editing goes along with this hand in hand. I’ve already started to learn basic editing tips and tricks, and now it’s all about applying them and learning more. Livia plans on getting a camera for herself, adding more variety to the scenery of our photos due to the fact that she now lives in the forest. She wants to take some pictures in the snow with her fellow bibliophiles. She cannot wait to contribute to the photography scene of our blog!

Let us know some of your new year resolutions! Keep us updated on how they are going; we’d love to chat about books, WIPs, or photography and as you can probably tell, we are always in need of tips and feedback! From Liv and I both, we thank you so much for taking the time to read what we have to write and we wish you a wonderful new year!

Most Anticipated Reads of 2019 Continued

Happy New Years Eve! To celebrate the last day of the year, I’m posting the second half of my most anticipated book releases for the new year! Wishing you all a joyous year and followed through resolutions!

  1. This book was found only by my relentless GoodReads surfing. I believe I found it on a list dedicated to books readers are most excited for in 2019. The Girl King by Mimi Yu sounds amazing in its uniqueness, and I promise this is the only book I found off another most anticipated releases list. I have high hopes for this book, based on the synopsis, to squander many stereotypes and writing cliques, and to truly ascend to have a distinctive perspective. This book is set to be published January 8th, 2019.
  2. Warrior of the Wild by Tricia Levenseller first caught my eye simply by its lovely cover. After that, I ventured to read the synopsis and that too made me want to read this book. I’m hoping for this book to be similar to Sky in the Deep in its captivating plot and cast of warriors. When I did more research about Levenseller, the author, I discovered she has also written another book that has been on my TBR shelf for a long time. I’m looking forward to February 26th, 2019 when it’s published.
  3. Cassandra Clare is who really got me into fantasy, albeit it was modern fantasy. I love the creativity of her stories and the incorporation of fantastical creatures. On the other hand, I must say that I am slightly overwhelmed by her continuing the same story forever. Nevertheless, I am still ecstatic for her next installment in the Shadowhunters universe—Chain of Gold, coming out on November 29th.
  4. Six of Crows made me laugh, cry, throw the book across the room; the works. That pesky duology (to one day become a trilogy) and its colorful characters stole my breath and my heart. After the emotional whirlwind Leigh Bardugo put me threw with those books, the only book hangover cure where other books by the same author. So then came the roller coaster that was the reading of the Shadow and Bone trilogy. After reading pretty much everything Leigh Bardugo had written, I was sure that this gal was one of my favorite authors. The twists that hit you like a brick wall, stark out of nowhere. Not the mention the characters I will forever wish upon a star that they could be real, instead of works of fiction. Set to be released on January 29th, 2019 is King of Scars, written by the gifted Leigh Bardugo, and taking place in the magical world that is forever my favorite place to go to escape reality.
  5. Academy of Assasins by Stacey Brutger was a very fulfilling read for me (feel free to check out my full review on the book). The next book in the series, Heart of the Assassins, was equally good in its caliber. I’m very excited to see what Brutger does with the development of the characters and their intermittent relationships. I have high hopes to see growth in her choice of words and writing style in Claimed by the Assasins, which is set to be released sometime in 2019.

2018 Recap

2018 is coming to a close. For a girl with an infinite to-do list, this ever-moving timeline can be somewhat daunting. The beckoning new year brings my time—or lack of which—sharply into perspective. To keep myself in bright spirits I’ve decided to reflect/recap some of the things Livia and I were able to accomplish this year pertaining to not only our blog, but also our writing, and our place amongst the bookstagram community. At the beginning of summer 2018, Livia and I started Book Bosomed Buddies, our first blog. We were able to post somewhat regularly for the majority of summer and all was well. School hit us harder than an anvil in a cartoon, and we needed a break. I personally just wasn’t organized enough at the time to pull off everything that had to get done, and my lofty ideas soon became a hindrance to keeping a manageable schedule. Around mid-August, I decided we were not only going to switch domain names, but also the platform in which we hosted our website. My mind was set in stone that we needed a self-hosted website, no matter that neither Livia nor I knew how to manage a self-hosted website. It’s something we’re still working to learn to this day (Livia and I are still very confused, but we are working on it). Looking back at where we started and compared to where we are now… I’m astonished and proud, yet even more ready to work even harder in 2019 to really improve not only the visual aspects of our website but also the integrity of our reviews and posts.  Yes, this transition caused us to go into a sort of hibernation, but it gave me the time to gather my wits and come up with an organized schedule for writing, posting, and picture taking. For the past month or so, Liv and I have been meeting our goal of posting every week around 80% of the time. Taking the time to reflect back on that percentage opens up roads to improve that percentage until it reaches 100%.

Onto writing. Blogging aside, both Liv and I have a passion for writing. This year for me, was a big milestone in my development as a writer. For the first time ever, I participated in NaNoWriMo. I felt confident enough to do this because I had finally stumbled upon a book idea I loved. It wasn’t like my past ideas, where I’d write nonstop for all of a week, then slowly putter out. No, this one felt right. I’d often find my mind disappearing into this fictional world I’d created, I knew my characters, could hear them conversing in my head. The plot was exhilarating to write, idea after idea flowing out, and all working together in an exciting way. This is the book I want to be published someday, this is a book I want to read so badly there is no option but to finish. While NaNoWriMo didn’t turn out as successfully as I had planned on it being, it gave me invaluable insight into my story. Writing on a schedule doesn’t really work for, as I discovered throughout November, but I have lofty goals for my manuscript for 2019. Livia is rather swamped with school, but she tries to write as much as she can while still having time for other things. However, she may need to cut down her Netflix binge-watching schedule. She has had a similar experience to mine and is currently experimenting with writing in third-person. She’s a few chapters into a new project that she is really looking forward too. Livia is also contemplating going back to her longest book that she wrote in the summer to incorporate some things she’s learned in her creative writing class (thanks Ms. Pohl!). She and I have set a goal. If she doesn’t finish a manuscript by July first, she must buy me at least one book! (completely her idea, by the way). Either way, I get a new thing to read in July! We both hope to make a ton of progress this year, and we hope our fellow authors reading this do too!

When moving onto the subject of reading, there isn’t much to go into depth on. This is unfortunately due to my poor ability to keep track of what I’ve read. At the beginning of the year, I had set a very high goal on GoodReads, but I lacked the follow through to now be able to reflect on my progress towards completing that goal. I have noted, however, that the amount of books I’ve read on a daily basis has slowly declined, the further we’ve moved into 2018. Livia feels the same, but she is hoping to get back into reading again. She just finished Crown of Midnight by Sarah J. Maas, and she must say: Wow. We both hope to read as much as we write, for what is a writer who can’t appreciate other writers’ work?

Also in 2018, I started a bookstagram account to serve as a platform for our blog. I’ve never been very good at the upkeep involved in social media so there were many times this year where we did not keep a regular posting schedule. Despite this, I was able to interact with other bibliophiles with the same fervor for reading and become somewhat immersed in the community feel of bookstagram. In addition, running this account pushed me towards photography (we kind of needed photos to post!) so I was really creatively pushed to come up with original photos and unique angles in which to take them. Throughout this process, my knowledge of the inner workings of photography grew. Livia hopes to get a camera so that she can join the effort. We will see!

Overall, 2018 was a fast-paced year. One where both Livia and I decided to jump head first into a whole world we knew practically nothing about. I, for one, was definitely throw for a loop, and both of us went through a huge learning curve. This blog has helped us stay close as friends and coming into 2019, I hope it helps us build more relationships with other bibliophiles around the world. We hope you have an amazing year!

Most Anticipated Reads of 2019

Hello bookish darlings and welcome! This week’s post is a bit special in celebration of the New Year! This is part one of two posts, highlighting some of my most anticipated book releases of the new year! Stay tuned tomorrow for the second half of this mini countdown of sorts for 2019!

  1. My most anticipated read for 2019, one that stands above all the rest, is a book currently being written by my all-time favorite author: Sarah J Maas. I’ve simply adored every other book she’s had published, so I’m very excited to get my hands on anything she writes. Including her newest work in progress,  Crescent City. Its set to be released in 2019.
  2. This year I bowed to the whims of my heart and opened the book Cruel Prince by Holly  Black. It was positively amazing, but I should’ve listened to my brain, who had warned me not to start it until the rest of the series was published. Predictably, its ending left me needing the next book, The Wicked King. It’s set to be released by January 8th, 2019.
  3. My love for the Witchlands series stemmed from chance. I had originally traveled to a book signing to meet Alexandra Bracken, I didn’t know there were to be other authors there. But boy am I glad there was. Susan Dennard, one of the coolest chicks I’ve ever met, was also at this signing. Her charm convinced me to give her first two books a try and, well, I’ve been not-so-patiently waiting ever since for Bloodwitch, set to come out on February 12th, 2019.
  4. Years ago, the voice behind the Unwind series captured my curiosity and my heart. I eased through the entire series and a few months ago I found Scythe on my local bookstore’s selves. Upon seeing the author, Neal Shusterman, I knew I had to read it. As soon as I was done with Scythe, I moved on to Thunderhead, and the ending nearly killed me. Ever since I have been eagerly awaiting The Toll, the third and final installment in the series. It’s being released sometime in 2019.   
  5. For me, this series is like wine. It gets better with time. The first time I read the Shatter Me series, it was somewhat slow going, and just a semi-okay read. Maybe a year down the line, something prompted me to re-read the whole series and… WOW. It was significantly better for me the second time around, and I’m not sure why. It may just have had something to do with the genres I was into at both points into time, or maybe not. I guess we’ll never know. Anywho, after finishing Ignite Me, I was disappointed to hear that Tahereh Mafi was going to end the series like that. So when I found out she actually had plans to continue the series, I was pleasantly surprised and infinitely excited. All within good reason, because Restore Me shattered me (hehe). Since then, I’ve been awaiting Defy Me, in hopes it will bring my frenzied emotions to rest. I’m afraid that quite the opposite will end up happening though. The next installment, Restore Me, is set to release in April of 2019.

Readers Relate

  1. Do you ever find yourself counting down the days until that final book in the series is released? I wouldn’t be surprised if the answer to that question is yes. But then after pre-ordering the book, making sure you receive it the day it comes out, it just sits on your shelf. Waiting for the day when you will muster up the courage to say goodbye to the world that has long since been your safe haven. The characters that encompass your thoughts every waking hour while you’re reading the series. The quotes you spend hours reading on Pinterest, the character art you can’t seem to find enough of.
  2. Do you bawl your eyes out at the end of a book simply because you can never read it for the first time again?
  3. Are you ever reading in public then something outrageous happens and your jaw drops and all you can do is lift your gaze towards the distance, mouth still open, reliving the moment in your head over and over again? Thinking about it from every possible angle? Then, once your senses are returned, you can’t help but wonder what everyone around you must be thinking of the girl lost in her own world of paper and ink.
  4. Do you ever hold off on reading the first book in a series, because you know there is no chance you’ll be able to wait for the next one?
  5. Or, after months of keeping your foot down, those 5-star reviews and gushing bookstagram posts snag you at last and your guilty hands eager to buy the book finally get their way? And then you finally sit down to start reading this wondrous story, with the crafty cover you can’t seem to look away from, and the characters you can’t help but cry over? You near the end, and you know it’ll leave your heart in pieces, so you just stop. Stop but two, maybe 4 chapters from the end, right before things have a chance to pick up again? So you can live in peace until the next book comes out when you’ll reread the first one anyways. Plenty of books don’t have endings where this works, but for everyone that doesn’t, there’s at least a few that do. This recently happened to me with Cruel Prince by Holly Black. I got soooo close to the end, but I just couldn’t do it, make myself wait a year, dying to know what would happen next.
  6. After reading for hours on end, does anyone else just have to look up and refocus their eyes and their mind? Akin to the process of how ginger is used to clean a pallet. You gotta clear your mind for a second, make sure your eyes are ready to continue reading?
  7. You need the next book. Now, now, now, now, NOW. Soon isn’t soon enough. Right now isn’t fast enough. You’d sell your soul to the devil to get that book in your hands.
  8. You’ve got it. That precious next book in the series. You live and breath that story, that world. You are a character in the tale, those are your friends, family, and loved ones you’re reading about. Ordinary life around you ceases to exist. You don’t sleep, and homework, once an annoying child hogging all your time, now dimmed into silence. Your phone? Nothing but a forgotten heap of metal (unless, of course, you’re reading off your phone. In that case, it never leaves your hand). You’ve finally finished, devoured the last words there were to read. The only emotion you’re left with is guilt, guilt for not having savored one of the best stories in your life. Too fast, this amazing thing has ended.
  9. There are no books left in the world. None. At least none that could compare to the one you just read. You are lost, floating, waiting for a book that might make you forget the grandeur of the last. You’ve lost hope of this ever happening. This, my friends, is a book hangover.
  10. Or maybe, there’s too many. So many books, you could never possibly read them all, but boy do you want to. The thought of this, the weight of your TBR pile, casts a daunting shadow over your thoughts.